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Some Unwanted Questions

 WHY DO PEOPLE ASK THESE?




I faced a lot of unwanted questions during my teenage years and am still facing them. People are always more interested in your life than their own. 


Questions I get a lot of -


  • How did you get good marks after engaging yourself in home activities? When do you study? 


I mean what is the base of this question, I don’t understand. 


  • Why didn’t you take Science after 10th?


I’d like to tell them, “My life My Rules, who the hell are you to tell me what to do”. But I can’t say that as my parents’ prestige does matter. So I just avoid them just like most people avoid bitter gourds. 


  • Why don’t you meet new people or why don’t you talk to us?


Actually, they don’t want to listen to my problem.  These people really would like to gossip with me and badmouth others, so they just like to have a group and want me to do the same as them. So no, thank you I’m good.




  • This is the time for love, you need to have a boyfriend, so why are you still single?


This question hit me so hard because if I say I’d like to have a boyfriend but can’t find one, they won’t believe me. If I say I’m not interested, they won’t believe me. If I lied about having a bf in the past and broke up with him, they’d definitely believe me. Now you guys can assume what kind of life I’m living. 

             Truth is I’m single, no one will believe me. Thug life 😂.


  • What are you going to do after graduation?


Dude like seriously, I just can’t take this anymore. This is the most annoying question for me. Some people actually told me that I’m trying to hide. Like yes, if I hide then I’ll get treasure or something like that huh. Ugh just Grow up and please stop asking me what I’m going to do as I’m enjoying my life much better than you, so stop this nonsense and let me live my life the way I want. It’s my headache.




  • Why are you getting fatter or healthier day by day? Why is your skin getting darker?


I eat a lot of food, that's why I’m fat. I don’t take care of my skin, so I'm getting darker day by day. Simple logic, Thank you.


  • Why have you become so quiet?


I’m a human being and there’s a thing called maturity, also it’s my decision if I want to keep or push away a person in my life. Also not talking much makes me think clearly. 


There are a lot of unwanted questions I’m asked but these are the most common. I know that you guys also get this kind of question but the thing is how you handle these people. Trust me, I just don’t care about these people anymore, I’m done. Sometimes people assume that I’m very rude or moody just by my replies to their questions. Get to know me before judging me.  




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